Bismillahirrahmanirraheem
ZEENAT AUR AARAISH (MAKEUP):
Qudrat
Ne Insaan Ko Tamam Makhlookaat Se Bahtar Shakl Aur Umdah Soorat Ata Ki
Hai, Us Haseen Shakal Wa Soorat Ka Taqaaza Hai Ke Usko Saaf Wa Paak
Rakha Jaaye Aur Jahan Tak Mumkin Ho Mard Aur Aurat Dono Hi Apni Paaki Wa Shakal Wa Soorat Ko Sawaaren,
Khaas Kar Azdawazi Zindagi Me (Married life) Is Ka Ehtemam Karna chahiye, Isse Dono Ke Darmiyan Qurbat Wa Muhabbat Badhti Hai Aur Nafrat Wa Karaahat Ka Jazba Paida Ni Hota
Allah Taala Ka Irshad Hai
"Aurton Ke Liye Tumpar Waise Hi Huqooq Hain Jaise Tumhare Liye Un Par Hain"
(Surah Baqarah)
Hz Ibn Abbas (Ra) Is Aayat Ki Tafseer Me Farmate Hain
"Jis Tarah Biwi Mere Liye Aaraish (Makeup) Karte Hai, Main Bhi Uske Liye Aaraish Karta Hoon, Main Pasand Ni Karta Ke Biwi Par Jo Mere Huqooq Hain Wah Poore Haasil Kar Loon Kyonki Uski Wajah Se Mere Uper Jo Uske Huqooq Hain Unki Mustahik Ho Jayegi Jaisa Ke Allah Taala Ne Is Aayat Me Farmaya "
Rasoollullah Sallalaho Alaihi Wasallam Ne Farmaya
"Jab Tum Safar Se Raat Me Aao (Aur Ghar Waalon Ko Pahle Se Malum Na Ho) Toh Fauran Ghar Me Na Chale Jao, Taake Jis Aurat Ka Shauhar Ghayab Tha Wah Zer E Naaf Baal Moond Le Aur Pur'gandah Baal Waali Surmein Kanghi Kar Le, Heshyaar Heshyaar Jald Baazi Na Karna"
(Bukhari)
Yaad Rakhna chahiye Ke Asal Zeenat Wa Aaraish Ye Hai Ke Jism Wa Libaas Ko Paak Wa Saaf Rakha Jaaye Aur Hiyyat Wa soorat Ko Unki Fitri Zeenaton Se Aaraasta Kiya jaye, Jinko Rasoollullah Sallalaho Alaihi Wasallam Ne Ek Hadith Me Bayan Kiya Hai,
"10 Cheezein Fitri Zeenat Hain, Moonchh (Maustache) Ko Khoob Taraashna, Daadhi Poori Poori Chhodhna, Miswaak Karna, Naak Me Paani Daal Kar Saaf Karna, Naakhun Kaatna,Ungalion Ke Jodon Ko Dhona, Baghal Ke Baal Ukhedhna, Zer E Naaf Baal Moondhna, Peshab Ke Baad Paani Se Istinja Karna, Kulli Karna "
(Muslim)
Ameer Ul Momineen Hz Umar (Ra) Ki Khidmat Me Ek Maila Kuchaila Pur'gandah Baal Waala Ek Mard Aaya,
Saath Me Uski Biwi Bhi Aayi,
Kahne Lagi:-"Aiy Ameer Ul Momineen ! Mujhko Isse Chhutkaara Dilaaiyye"
Hz Umar (Ra) Samjh Gaye Ki Ye Apne Shauhar Se karaahat Karti Hai,
Uske Shauhar Ko Huqm Diya Ke Jaao Ghusl Karo, Sar Ke Baal Aur Naakhun Taraasho, Jab Wah In Kaamon Se Faarigh Hokar Aaya Toh Huqm Diya Ke
Biwi Ke Saamne Jaao, Ab Jo Biwi Ki Nigaah Uspar Padi Toh Usko Ajnabi Mard Samjhkar Hat Gayi Lekin Kuch Der Me Pahchan Gayi Aur Apne Daawe Se Dast Bardaar Ho Kar Uske Saath Rahna Manzoor Kar Liya,
Uske Baad Hz Umar (ra) Ne Aam Huqm Sunaaya
"Logon !Aurton ki Qurbat Wa Muhabbat Qaayem Rakhne Ke Liye Ye Sab Kaam Kiya karo, Allah Ki Qasam Tumhari Biwiyan Tumko Isi Tarah Aaraasta Dekhna chaahti Hain Jis Tarah Tum Unko Aaraasta Dekhna Chaahte Ho"
(Adab Zawaaj Pg 60)
Mard Aurat Dono Ke Liye Zaroori Hai ke Zeenat Wa Aaraish Ke Maamle me Apne Munaasib Haal, Aitedaal Ko Malfooz Rakhe, Zyaadah Mubaalgha Aur Sharai Wa Fitri Hudood Se Aage Badhna Jayez Nahin Hai,
Aurton Ke Liye Ye Bhi Zaroori Hai Ke Unki Zeenat Ghar Ki Char'diwaari Tak Ki Mahdood Ho,
Ghar Se Baaher Nikalne Ke Liye Roz Marrah ke Istemali Libaas Aur Saadah Hiyyat Me Hona Zaroori Hai,
Ghair Mardon Se Saamne Zeenat Ki Numaish Karna Wa Saamne Jaana Bhi Haram Hai,
Afsos Maujooda Zamaane Me Maghribi Fashion Aur Rang Rogan Ki Zeenaton Ke Shauq ne Muslim Aurton Ko European Aurton Ki Saff Me Khada kar Diya Hai,
Sirf Yahi Nahin Balke Aaj Muslim Mardon Aur Aurton Ki Aksariyat, Ghair Qaumon Ki Mushabehat Aur Pairwi Me Zeenat Ke Fitri Usoolon Aur Paidaishi Tareeqon Ke Khilaaf Amli Baghaawat Ka Suboot De Rahi Hain.......
Khaas Kar Azdawazi Zindagi Me (Married life) Is Ka Ehtemam Karna chahiye, Isse Dono Ke Darmiyan Qurbat Wa Muhabbat Badhti Hai Aur Nafrat Wa Karaahat Ka Jazba Paida Ni Hota
Allah Taala Ka Irshad Hai
"Aurton Ke Liye Tumpar Waise Hi Huqooq Hain Jaise Tumhare Liye Un Par Hain"
(Surah Baqarah)
Hz Ibn Abbas (Ra) Is Aayat Ki Tafseer Me Farmate Hain
"Jis Tarah Biwi Mere Liye Aaraish (Makeup) Karte Hai, Main Bhi Uske Liye Aaraish Karta Hoon, Main Pasand Ni Karta Ke Biwi Par Jo Mere Huqooq Hain Wah Poore Haasil Kar Loon Kyonki Uski Wajah Se Mere Uper Jo Uske Huqooq Hain Unki Mustahik Ho Jayegi Jaisa Ke Allah Taala Ne Is Aayat Me Farmaya "
Rasoollullah Sallalaho Alaihi Wasallam Ne Farmaya
"Jab Tum Safar Se Raat Me Aao (Aur Ghar Waalon Ko Pahle Se Malum Na Ho) Toh Fauran Ghar Me Na Chale Jao, Taake Jis Aurat Ka Shauhar Ghayab Tha Wah Zer E Naaf Baal Moond Le Aur Pur'gandah Baal Waali Surmein Kanghi Kar Le, Heshyaar Heshyaar Jald Baazi Na Karna"
(Bukhari)
Yaad Rakhna chahiye Ke Asal Zeenat Wa Aaraish Ye Hai Ke Jism Wa Libaas Ko Paak Wa Saaf Rakha Jaaye Aur Hiyyat Wa soorat Ko Unki Fitri Zeenaton Se Aaraasta Kiya jaye, Jinko Rasoollullah Sallalaho Alaihi Wasallam Ne Ek Hadith Me Bayan Kiya Hai,
"10 Cheezein Fitri Zeenat Hain, Moonchh (Maustache) Ko Khoob Taraashna, Daadhi Poori Poori Chhodhna, Miswaak Karna, Naak Me Paani Daal Kar Saaf Karna, Naakhun Kaatna,Ungalion Ke Jodon Ko Dhona, Baghal Ke Baal Ukhedhna, Zer E Naaf Baal Moondhna, Peshab Ke Baad Paani Se Istinja Karna, Kulli Karna "
(Muslim)
Ameer Ul Momineen Hz Umar (Ra) Ki Khidmat Me Ek Maila Kuchaila Pur'gandah Baal Waala Ek Mard Aaya,
Saath Me Uski Biwi Bhi Aayi,
Kahne Lagi:-"Aiy Ameer Ul Momineen ! Mujhko Isse Chhutkaara Dilaaiyye"
Hz Umar (Ra) Samjh Gaye Ki Ye Apne Shauhar Se karaahat Karti Hai,
Uske Shauhar Ko Huqm Diya Ke Jaao Ghusl Karo, Sar Ke Baal Aur Naakhun Taraasho, Jab Wah In Kaamon Se Faarigh Hokar Aaya Toh Huqm Diya Ke
Biwi Ke Saamne Jaao, Ab Jo Biwi Ki Nigaah Uspar Padi Toh Usko Ajnabi Mard Samjhkar Hat Gayi Lekin Kuch Der Me Pahchan Gayi Aur Apne Daawe Se Dast Bardaar Ho Kar Uske Saath Rahna Manzoor Kar Liya,
Uske Baad Hz Umar (ra) Ne Aam Huqm Sunaaya
"Logon !Aurton ki Qurbat Wa Muhabbat Qaayem Rakhne Ke Liye Ye Sab Kaam Kiya karo, Allah Ki Qasam Tumhari Biwiyan Tumko Isi Tarah Aaraasta Dekhna chaahti Hain Jis Tarah Tum Unko Aaraasta Dekhna Chaahte Ho"
(Adab Zawaaj Pg 60)
Mard Aurat Dono Ke Liye Zaroori Hai ke Zeenat Wa Aaraish Ke Maamle me Apne Munaasib Haal, Aitedaal Ko Malfooz Rakhe, Zyaadah Mubaalgha Aur Sharai Wa Fitri Hudood Se Aage Badhna Jayez Nahin Hai,
Aurton Ke Liye Ye Bhi Zaroori Hai Ke Unki Zeenat Ghar Ki Char'diwaari Tak Ki Mahdood Ho,
Ghar Se Baaher Nikalne Ke Liye Roz Marrah ke Istemali Libaas Aur Saadah Hiyyat Me Hona Zaroori Hai,
Ghair Mardon Se Saamne Zeenat Ki Numaish Karna Wa Saamne Jaana Bhi Haram Hai,
Afsos Maujooda Zamaane Me Maghribi Fashion Aur Rang Rogan Ki Zeenaton Ke Shauq ne Muslim Aurton Ko European Aurton Ki Saff Me Khada kar Diya Hai,
Sirf Yahi Nahin Balke Aaj Muslim Mardon Aur Aurton Ki Aksariyat, Ghair Qaumon Ki Mushabehat Aur Pairwi Me Zeenat Ke Fitri Usoolon Aur Paidaishi Tareeqon Ke Khilaaf Amli Baghaawat Ka Suboot De Rahi Hain.......