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Wednesday, April 2, 2014

MAA BAAP PAR BACCHON KE HUQOOQ





Hadees :


NABI KAREEM SALLALLAHU ALAYHI WA SALLAM NE FARMAYA !

Waldain ( maa baap ) ki TARAF SE AULAD Ke LIYE BAHETAREEN ATYA (TOHFA ) achchi TARBIYAT KE SIWA BAHTAR KUCH BHI NAHI .

( mishkaat shareef)

Aur Islamic Girls College Har Shaher Me Hone Chahiyein' Tab Hi Hamara Muashara Sudhar Sakta Hai Insha ALLAH..............

Aulaad Ka Ek Haq Yah Hai Ki Waalidain Unhe Acchi Taaleem Dilaayen,
Aulaad Se Muhabbat Ka Jazba Toh Insaano Ke Saath Saath Haiwaanat Me Bhi Hai,
Gaaye, Bhains, Bakri Aur Jumla Haiwaan Bhi Apne Bachhon Ko Dhoodh Pilaate Hain, Unhe Muhabbat Se Choomte Hain, Unki Judaayi Mahsoos Karte Hain,

Unka Baccha Marr Jaaye Toh Gham Ki Shiddat Se Dhoodh DenA Band Kar Dete Hain,

Unke Bacche Jab Tak Chalne Firne Ke Qaabil Na Ho Jaayen, Unki Dekh Bhaal Me Lage Rahte Hain,

Yah Fitri Jazba Haiwaanaat Aur Insaano Me Mushtarak Hai,

Insaan Ashraful Makhlooqaat Aur Kaaynaat Me Allah Taala Na Naayab hai, Use Bahut Se Faraiz Saunpe Gaye Hain, Unme Aulaad Ki Taaleem Wa Tarbiyat Bhi Shamil Hai,

Hafiz Ibne Qayyim (rh) Ne Baaz Ahle Ilm Se Naqal Kiya Hai Ki

Allah Rabbul Izzat Qayamat Ke Din Aulaad Se Waalidain Ke Mutallik Sawal Karne Se Pahle Waalidain Se Aulaad Ke Mutalliq Sawaal Karega.

Kyonki Jis Tarah Waalidain Ka Aulaad Par Haq Hai Usi Tarah Aulaad Ka Waalidain Par Haq Hai

Hafiz Ibne Qayyin (rh) Mazeed farmate Hain

" Jisne Apni Aulaad Ki Acchi Tarbiyat Karne Me Kotaahi Ki Aur Usko Nazar'andaaz Kar Diya toH Usne Bahut Badi Ghalti Ki.

Kyonki Aulaad Me Aksar Fasaad, Waalidain Ki Taraf Se Hi AatA Hai Aur Agar Unhone Be'parwaahi Se Kaam Liya Aur Deen Ke Faraiz Sunan Ki Taaleem Na Di Toh Aisi Aulaad Na Toh Apne Aapko Fayeda De Sakegi Aur Na Apne Waalidain Ke Liye Khair Ka Zariya Saabit Hogi,

Ek Baap Ne Apne Bete Ko Uski Bad'sulooki Par Daanta Toh Usne Kaha--

Abba Jaan ! Aapne Bachpan Me Haqqe Khidmat Ada Ni Kiya Toh Maine Bade Hokar Aap ki Na'farmani Ki Hai, Aapne Mujhe Bachpan Me Zaaya Kiya Toh Main Aap Ko Budhaape Me Zaaya Kar Raha Hoon "

(Tohfatul Maudood 193)

Sayyidina Hz Anas Bin Malik (ra) Se Riwayat Hai Ki Nabi E Akram Sallalaho Alaihi Wasallam Ne Farmaya

" Ilm Haasil Karna Har Musalman Par Farz Hai"

(Sunan Ibn Maajah 224)

Waalidain Par Farz Hai Ki Wah Khud Bhi Ilm Haasil Karen Aur Apni Aulaad Ko Bhi Ilm Ki Daulat Se Maalamaal Karen,

Maa Ki Goad (Lap) Bacche Ke Liye Pahli Aur BahtareeN Dars'gaah Hai, Haqeeqat Me Insaan Ki Seerat Maa Ki Goad Me Banti Aur Sawarti Hai, Bacche Ka Sabse Zyada Raabta Maa Ke Saath Hota Hai Aur Baccha Maa Aur Uske Mahaul Ka Asar Qubool Karta Hai,

LihaazA Waalidah Hi Bacche Ko Ibtedaayi Taaleem De Taaki Use Deen e Fitrat Yaani Islam Ki Khoobiyon Ka Ilm Ho Aur Uski Zindagi Islam Ke Saanche Me Dhhal Sake,

Uske Elaawa Bacche Ko Scienci Taaleem ki targheeb Bhi Di Jaaye, Kyonki Scienci Uloom Ko Haasil Karne Se Insaan Kaar'khaane Kudrat Me Uske Kawaaneen Se Aagaah Hoga Aur Allah Ke Ahkaam Ke Mutaabik Kaaynnaat Ki Taskheer Ka Fareeza Anjaam De Sakega Aur Is Tarah Haqeeqe Maano Me Zameen Me Khaleefa Hone Ka Khud Ko Haqdaar Thahra Sakega..

Aulaad Ka Aham Haq Hai Akhlaaq Ki Tarbiyat.

Islam Me Sirf Zaati Nijaat Kaafi Ni hai, Islam Ye Zimmedari Har Shakhs ke Supurd Karta Hai Ki Wah Dusron Ke Nijaat Ka Bhi Bando'bast Kare,

Khaandaan Ke Sar'barah Ka Yah Farz Hai Ki Wah Ahlo Ayaal Ki Aisi Tarbiyat Kare Ki Waah Allah Ki Azmat Ke Qaayel Hon, Allah Ke Ahkaam Ko Maane Aur Aakhirat Ki Fiqr Karen,

Dunyawi Khush'hali Ke Elaawa Abdi Zindagi Me Sur'khuru Ka Khyaal Karen, Jaisa Ki Allah Taala Ka Farmaan Hai,

" Aiy Imaan Walon ! Tum Apne Aapko Aur apne Ahl O ayal Ko Us Aag Se Bachaao Jiska Eeindhan (fuel) Insaan Aur Patthar Hain"

(surah Tahreem 6)

Nabi e Akram Sallalo Alaihi Wasallam Ne Farmaya

" Baccha Jab 7 Saal Ka Ho Jaaye Toh Use Namaz Padhne Ka Huqm Do Aur Jab 10 saal Ka Ho Jaaye Aur Namaz Na Padhe Toh Use Maar Kar Namaz Padhao Aur Unhe Alag Alag Sulaaya Karo"

(Sunan Abu dawood 495)

Nabi E Akram Sallalaho Alaihi Wasallam Ke Is Irshad Ke Pesh e Nazar Waalidain Ko Chahiye Ki Wah Apne Bacchon Ko 7 Saal Ki Umar Tak Namaz Aur Akhlaaq Ke Buniyaadi Usool Sikha Den,



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